It's been a fortnight since we were presented with the roadmap to the end of this lockdown- a phased return to 'normality' between now and 21 June, when (although I'll believe it when I see it), social distancing will be at an end and life as we knew if BC (before Covid) can resume. Something to rejoice about surely? You'd have thought to, but, in all honesty, the idea of a return to 'normal' fills me with dread. Between now and this time last year, my life has changed in ways that I don't think I'd have been able to predict in my wildest dreams. I've been made redundant because of the pandemic, so in that sense my 'normal' no longer exists. And, although I still find myself getting irrationally angry and upset about the circumstances surrounding losing my job, I can't say that I'm sad to be leaving that chapter of my life behind. My previous Monday-Friday existence was one of feeling absolutely shattered all of the time, hauling myself into an overcrowded office, commuting every day (flexible working was a myth until 2020, am I right?), and feeling like I was compromising so many other aspects of my life because of how much my job was taking out of me. And, on reflection, the scary thing was how normal that was.
Now? The time and space to think about the bigger picture over the last year has really made me appreciate the small things. I'm grateful every morning that I can wake up without stressing about dashing out of the house for the train. Grateful for the huge season ticket refund I got last April. Spending more time at home over the last twelve months has allowed me to claw back some of that fabled 'work life balance' which I didn't believe was attainable before. For the first time in a LONG time, I've put myself first. Granted, it hasn't all been plain sailing (we have, after all, been living through a global pandemic), but if making it through the last twelve months has taught us anything it's that we only get one go at this game of life. Every day is precious.
With that in mind, I can't say that I'm particularly craving a return to 'normal' as it was. I've realised over the last year just how much of myself I'd lost in the fog of worrying about what I 'had' to be doing rather than what I 'should' be doing. Yes, I can't wait to see (and hug!) my friends. I'd love a change of scenery when it's safe to travel outside of this particular postcode. But, as for the rest? The culture of toxic presenteeism, the underappreciation, the sheer unfiltered rudeness of the London commuter? I'd rather keep hold of this new normal, thanks.
How are you feeling about the end of lockdown?
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